We’re asking the questions to increase awareness and understanding of the LGBTQIA+ community during Pride Month. Here’s Chrissy’s story and what she wants you to know…

1. How old were you when you started questioning who you were

I was 10 years old when I first kissed a girl. I didn’t know then but that was my heart and soul pulling toward a girl when I was surrounded by boys. So, at that age, I questioned what was “wrong with me?”

2. How old were you when you came out?

Later on down the road, when I was probably 15, I remember watching a tv show which had a lesbian fitness trainer in it. I became infatuated with her, and was so confused I asked my bi-sexual friend how she knew she was bi. She gave me the advice to experiment with a girl and then I would know my answer. I didn’t come out as a “lesbian” until I was 21.

3. Who did you come out to first?

I think the first person I told was probably my friend at the time, Heather.

4. What was the hardest part about coming out?

The hardest part to me was the fact I was so scared what people would think of me, and quite frankly I was trying to be “normal.” The hardest part was pretending and being uncomfortable living as a “bisexual” when I always felt guilty. Sleeping with men just didn’t feel right. Women, they’re different.

I came home from deployment, and shortly after moved to Wisconsin where I was involved in the gay community. I met a few people who helped me to feel comfortable with being openly lesbian. I moved back to Belvidere not too long after, with 12 inches less of hair on my head. I was comfortable.

5. What was the easiest part? Was there an easy part?

The easiest part? I would say I have good support and non-judgemental people in my life, who make it easy for me to be me.

6. How did your family and friends react?

My friends and family have never hated the fact I am lesbian. In fact, we all joke about my past now and embrace who I am today and I have support everywhere I go.

7. What does Pride Month mean to you?

Pride month to me is the one month of the year, wherein the day and age we live in is the best month for the gay community. All around the world people recognize the LGBTQ community and show their support in the month of June.

Pride month to me means good vibes, good people, and just a celebration of everyone who is gay, straight, bisexual, lesbian, transgender, and so on. Pride month Allows all of us to be able to celebrate our sexuality openly and appreciate being comfortable in our own skin.